i can't join my friend's server, a lot of them play on java but i'm on bedrock so my game is on 1.19.51. i'm pretty sure that 1.19.3(which is the java version) is the same as .51 but since it's named differently and has a different coding language the server doesn't let me in 
it's been a few days and i really wanna join ,, hope this has a quick fix instead of just waiting for a new update on my side