My friend supposedly hosts his server with Aternos.
However, I keep getting laggy and disconnected while inside of it. This does not happen in any other server.
The three ones I keep getting are:
"Flying is not enabled on this server" (I wasn't flying)'
"Disconnected" (Literally just "disconnected")
"an existing connection was forcibly closed by the remote host " (???)
Please help. I really want to play with him but I'm tired of constantly lagging and getting disconnected every 5 minutes. Nobody else in this server has this issue.