This isn't my own server but my friends their are multiple other people on the server and whenever their on the ping is around 100-200 however on average my ping is around 500- a few thousand I live within a few miles to all of the others on the server I have been attempting to use the DynIP and it has partially helped I can join the server before it would just kick me. I do have worse internet than others however running an internet speed test I got 29ms. The server tps averages around 18-20. I have tried the other methods and none have worked so far
Location: Center of united states
Ping:400-2000
TPS:18-20
Non Aternos ping: 29ms
Other players ping:100-200