Most of my friends and I have been playing on a server quite a lot recently, but for one other of my friends (so far) and me have experienced extreme lag on the server to where it is unplayable. But for some of my other friends who play on the server are completely fine and the server runs completely normal. If anyone has any ideas on how to fix this that would be good!
~Additional Info~
We both updated Java already...
internal exception java.net.socketexception connection reset minecraft (Crash Message)
The Server Runs On Spigot BTW Too!
Thanks! 
