Skyfactory 4 Prestige enabling

So I have had this issue since SF4 was added to aternos. Whenever I make a SF4 server and I join it with friends the prestige is auto disabled and the prestige force commands don't work. (and before you tell me to try again I have)

Side note, my friend has prestige enabled but I don't so that might be an issue.

And now that I check console it said that I requested prestige to be force enabled but I can't find a way to accept it.

Well prestige isn't working for me specifically but works for someone on the server