lost connection: timed out

I was able to play on my server that had fabric origins 1.16.5 for a while now but for the past few days I haven't been able to connect. Every time I try to connect the game loads a bit then disconnects me with the message "connection lost". I checked Aternos logs and it says "lost connection: timed out". My friend is still able to join the server so I know it isn't corrupted. I tried to connect to another 1.16.5 vanilla server and i still was unable to connect. I tried redownloading my mods but it didn't change anything. It did work for a bit after I deleted my player data but the problem came back. Pls help i don't want to have to keep deleting my player data.

https://mclo.gs/xiZzzlp

Quote from Adriel

You most likely don't have the same mods in the same version on your pc as on your server.

I tried redownloading the mods for the version I'm playing on and it sadly didn't change anything. I was told it might just be my connection to the servers but I am not sure if that's the case since the problem has persisted for more than a week now.

This is the error I get when I try connecting to a 1.16.5 paper server, using optifine, after removing all mods I had in the folder.
https://mclo.gs/Ic792jA

Quote from Roman

What is the address of the server?

In which country do you live?

Please share your client log

AllTests.aternos.me
Philippines
where do I find client log or is that just the same as server logs?

Quote from Roman

I don't need it anymore.

We already know that several ISPs in the Philippines have connectivity issues to central Europe where our servers are located.

We already tried to reach out to them, but it seems they don't care about that issue.

There's nothing that can be done from our side.

Rip ok then. Nothing I can do about it, it seems. Thx for the help.