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Hello, Aternos! 
it would really be a big fat Thumbs up if you'd make the folder editing Realtime, so while the server is running , you can save and then the files would change on the server, so if i were to do a reload command in-game for a plugin, it will reload instead of Restarting or just make it realtime edits. I get super irritated restarting the server each and everytime I edit the plugin folders.
When you do /reload it shouldn't restart the server
as i know and i use
There is a plugin Called PlugMan try it 
Hello, Aternos!
it would really be a big fat Thumbs up if you'd make the folder editing Realtime, so while the server is running , you can save and then the files would change on the server, so if i were to do a reload command in-game for a plugin, it will reload instead of Restarting or just make it realtime edits. I get super irritated restarting the server each and everytime I edit the plugin folders.
This is already the case from our side.
However spigot/bukkit itself do not offer for "realtime loading". You have to reload / restart the server.
