So I used to host my server at a different hosting site (they have this thing Im suggesting) before but unlike Aternos that you can add mods and stuffs. My suggestion is that since I can't monitor the server everytime and everyday , there should be a thing where my friends/players can up the server themselves when they try to join the server without me manually starting it in the panel
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