Hi, I play on the server together with a friend for about a month and start with version 1.13.
From the beginning I found connection problems with the server for having a good line. The connection problem occurs when I enter the server and immediately after that second or minute it disconnects me saying: "Connection lost. Disconnected." all this for the first 5-6 times I try to return. The problem subsides when, after the sixth time I return, it no longer seems to give me complications.
My friend, unlike him, has never encountered such problems managing to play quietly. The problem got worse when the server was updated to 1.14 today, I can't even stay for more than 20 seconds and it immediately disconnects me automatically while trying to log in more than 50 times. Now it's practically impossible for me to get into the server and place blocks quietly or open chest and furnaces. Please help me, it's not my connection problem because I can play quietly on other games and on other minecraft servers without digging or crashing. The problem is solely and exclusively on our aternos server created by my friend.