io.netty.channel.abstractchannel$annotatedconnectexception - need help

I am trying to play on a server of a few friends but i can't join it

i have no form of communication with them other then chatting in minecraft. i have been trying to join it the last few days but i am unable to join it.

can anybody help me with this? i really want to play with them again.

Quote from ChosenFate

When the server is online, click on "Connect" and connect to the bottom IP. That should fix it.

i do not have acces to the console

Quote from Joshy | #galaxymax

That's not the console

https://aternos.org/server/

what do you mean? the only way of communication i have with them is the friend list on hypixel. i also can't see the server online. i direct connect to the server but i can't connect to it. when i do see it online all i can see is the name i gave it and a description.