Server Outdated. And Disconnecting

Trying out the ice and fire mod with a friend of mine, and we have been encountering a lot of problems. For instance the server disconnects us both at seemingly random intervals, When this happens i have to restart the server- Which sometimes results in the server it self shutting down. This much i am fairly sure is due to the advanced dragon AI that comes in the ice and fire mod- but since i don't have access to the config file for it i can't turn it off.

Also sometimes when i am restarting the server it tells me the server is outdated when i try to join again. Despite being online, and working fine with the same version of forge only moments ago. Direct connect doesn't work, And the first time i encountered the problem reinstalled forge seemed to do the trick- until it happened again and that didn't work. Any help would be greatly appreciated

Just a recap
- The server is appearing as 'Online' when the outdated server message occurs
- We are running Ice and Fire 1.1.1
- Advanced dragon AI Might be causing disconnecting issues. (We had two dragons spawn basically next to each other so that is my best guess)

Ah. i didn't think to look at the log. My bad..

if i encounter the problem again i will be sure to grab it.

Just to be clear though we are talking about the console log right?

I see, Mind telling me how to access it for future reference?