Hello,
I'm a free user and have my server on which I play everyday with my friends. I'm the operator. My server launched after hour and a half and i joined. I literally send messages to my friends to join, and finished watching the video,which took 2 minutes, i was kicked from the server an now i have to wait another 2 hours for server to finish with the queue. Why am I getting kicked when i'm the operator, wasn't kicked for being AFK, but something else (it said like remote host or something like error) and the worst thing is, my friends are getting kicked too for no reason. Why is that happening.
Also my server is lagging really bad, like arrows don't work, mobs barely move, i cant use the elytra half of the time, destroyed blocks are glitched and become invisible, but are still there, it takes many seconds to pick up dropped items, and overall can't play with more than 3 people
What is the problem here, am I doing something wrong
Edit: After another hour an a half, there was no sound when i needed to confirm the server and it closed again. another hour an a half wait 
Edit 2:
this is the message i have been getting, it's happening several times