I have a server that I play with a friend of mine that has some light mods, mostly small stuff but a few larger ones like Minecolonies and Biomes O' Plenty (62 total, many of which are small additions or tweaks to the game). Occasionally we will both time out and get kicked, but for the next five or so minutes the server will say that we are still in, and the console/log is frozen. We always have to wait for it to catch up or crash. Does anyone know why this happens or how to avoid it?
The server also occasionally has issues where it runs out of memory and crashes because of it, seemingly at random, as it will just happen when we're cutting down trees or building.