Doesn't show the server to a friend

I believe if your friend uses a VPN and sets his network in Mexico he should be able to join. He will most likely experience a decent amount of lag but this should allow him to join the server.

Quote from wolfaded

Well I started a server with mods, and it works to all my friends exceptig for one, we live in Mexico, but he lives in the US, there's a way to solve this? When he adds the server to his servers list, it just shows him as disconnected, and it doesn't even show the aternos logo on the server list

What is the error that he gets when he tries to join?

Quote from wolfaded

He can't even join, on the servers list it says, server disconnected. We made a try of him creating the server where he is, instead of me having it here, and I could join, but not him, so I don't know what's the problem

Tell your friend to try to join, and if he can't, ask him the error that he gets.

There is a second IP, it's there at "Connect" and you have 2 IPs, one that you put and one below where you put it in direct connection